Your questions, answered
Help your son take the next step.
The weekend is for young men. The decision often starts with a parent. Here’s what families ask us most.
Fit & experience
What’s it like?
Who are YMUW programs for?
Our programs are for young men ages 13–20, whether they “have it together” or are “figuring it out.” Young men come from diverse social, ethnic, economic, academic and athletic backgrounds.
What makes the program unique?
The main thing to know about YMUW is that it’s a lot of fun and there’s always great food. Your son will participate in sports, open-forum discussion groups, yoga, obstacle courses, drum circles, martial arts and community service activities.
The entire agenda is designed to enhance your son’s teamwork abilities, leadership skills and personal growth.
What if my son is unsure about attending?
Most young men are not immediately excited about a wilderness adventure camp away from their digital devices. Start by exploring the activities together and talking about his questions.
A preview call with Dr. Mark is an opportunity to learn about the experience. Contact us to discuss participation expectations and whether it is a fit for your son.
Can he attend with friends—or more than once?
We’ve had young men attend YMUW and then return, bringing their friends with them. We’ve also had graduates attend three and four times.
Ask us about the next weekend and current opportunities for returning graduates to get involved.
Planning & preparation
Come prepared.
Which supplies will my son need?
Once you register your son, you’ll be sent a complete list of supplies so he can be properly prepared. Basic camping supplies include a sleeping bag and a backpack for toiletries and clothing.
The existing guide says food and tents are provided. Confirm the June 2027 packing list and discuss medication, dietary or accessibility arrangements directly with the team.
Can he attend if I live out of town?
Parents have sent their sons to YMUW without making the trip themselves. In the past, families arranged for friends or relatives to handle transportation, or discussed arrangements with the Event Manager.
Contact us before booking travel to confirm the current arrival, departure and transportation arrangements.
Who supports the young men?
Our mentors prepare through training with the YMUW Leadership team. They are devoted to helping young men develop self-respect and learn the importance of teamwork.
For questions about current supervision, safeguarding, overnight arrangements or individual support needs, talk with the program team before deciding.
What does the weekend cost?
June 2027 fees, what is included and current assistance options will be published with registration. Please ask us if cost is a concern.
What is the refund policy?
The existing FAQ provides a full refund if YMUW cancels, a full refund for a request eight or more days before an event, and credit for the next event for requests seven days or fewer before an event.
These are the existing website’s terms; their application to June 2027 must be confirmed before payment. More planning questions
Learn how to mentor your son.
While your son is attending YMUW, we recommend that parents explore the parent workshop and online course. These activities are designed to help families enjoy more caring and cooperative relationships.
For parents, too
Keep the conversation going.
Why is there a workshop for parents?
Parents need to know how to support the natural individuation process of their sons. The parent program offers practical techniques for building trust, cooperation and more caring relationships at home.
It also offers a community of other parents who bring practical insight to the issues families may be struggling with.
Is the parent workshop mandatory?
It is not a requirement that you attend the parent workshop for your son to participate in YMUW. Conversely, parents can attend the parent workshop even if their son is not attending YMUW.
This is a separately operated offering. Ask us about current dates, facilitators, fees and terms.
What happens after the weekend?
YMUW encourages graduates to stay involved through mentoring and volunteering. The aim is to keep working on the personal, social, financial and academic skills that support a happy, responsible and resilient life.
Ask about current opportunities. Dr. Mark’s individual mentoring is a separate service from YMUW.
The next Ultimate Weekend
June 17–20, 2027
Eco-Camp Berryessa · Napa, California
Registration opens soon.